One Country, Many ‘Dunces’! By Seun Dawodu

Yeah I know the title looks absolutely ridiculous, but hear me out and decide for yourself whether it is apt or not. Anyways I guess it remains my prerogative whatever title I choose to give to my ‘writings’. *tongue out*

B​etween Boxers and Briefs – What’s Good for My Sausage? By Seun Dawodu

Okay so I sound vulgar, right? Well, wrong! And in any case I am talking about mine. *tongue out*. Just so you know, the headline is not my creation; I read it somewhere online and it took me straight away to my early days.

Independence Celebration- A Slap On Us!!! By Seun Dawodu.

                               

I remember the book 'Everything men know about women' by Cindy Cashman. I remember my very first thought about the idea of a book filled with blank pages going on sales. And I remember that it was a huge succeess with women buying it in droves to give to male friends, co-workers and family members. LOL!

"I'm Only 18-Year-Old And I've Had Sex With 4 Men, Is That Too Much?

                 

I am 18 years old and in my second year in a private university. I started having sex when I turned 16 after leaving secondary school and I have had four sexual partners so far. I dated 2 of the boys while the other 2 were just flings. Recently I confided in a friend the number of men I've been with and I later saw text exchanges between her and another mutual friend of ours laughing at me and criticizing me.

They called me all sorts of names including wayward and loose. I've been with only four men, is that too much for a girl my age? I thought it was the norm so why are my friends condemning me and passing the info around?

Yvonne Nelson Tells Ladies To Stop Dating Men That Is Old Enough To Be Their Dad, Grand Dad And Great Grand Dad.

Relationship Advise To Ladies from Yvonne Nelson, See more tweets after this cut.

Question of the day: Why are boys so nice to HOT girls?

I know your probably going to say like really!!! but i am so curious why boys are so nice to them and mean to ugly girls.. 

Question of the day - Why Do Babes Like Revealing Their Cleavage?

                 
                                   

Ladies i want to know why you love revealing your cleavages and still feel insecure once you see a guy staring at them?

Thanks.......

Take Responsibilty For Your Life (A Must Read)

Quotes from this;
"You are not to walk away from your challenges You are to confront them"

"You don't need to keep dwelling on past mistakes.
It has happened You are the only one that can allow it to hinder you by holding unto them"
More Inspirational Quotes from this write-up when you continue, we love success stories... Please endeavour to Take Responsibilty For Your Life, By Wale Olajumoke;

How long will you continue to blame your parent, background, environment, circumstance for your predicament?

How long will you continue to see yourself as inferior to others?
How long will you continue to hope on serendipity?
Take responsibility for your life

The truth is, you cannot correct what you are unwilling to confront
You are not to walk away from your challenges
You are to confront them
Take responsibility for your life

You don't need to keep dwelling on past mistakes It has happened
You are the only one that can allow it to hinder you by holding unto them
Take responsibility for your life

It's true things are not working
However, winners don't quit and quitters don't win
Many failures are those who give up at the edge of their miracle
Take responsibility for your life

Success in itself is elusive You have to go after it
You have to demand from life what you want from it
Take responsibility for your life

Drugs will only provide temporary solution
Ignoring the reality doesn't change anything
Accepting defeat is not an option
Take responsibility for your life

Seek God in the place of prayer
Acquire as much as you can in terms of knowledge
Take action
And you will see your life taking a new shape
The only person that can stop you is you

8 Things a Woman Should NEVER Get Confused

For young girls who don’t know and for grown women who want to help out those following in their footsteps, these are the things you should NEVER get confused.

1. Sex for Love: He drinks a Red Bull, stretches, and even keeps his Timbs on; then acts like everything but a gentleman in the bedroom ’til your toes catch a cramp. But make no mistake, his heart is in his chest, not his underwear.

2. Attention for Loyalty: “But he’s coming home to me every night”=the cry of a woman who forgot her worth a long time ago. A man will have sex with your sister, drive home with the gas money you gave him, and say “Baby I had a long day, I just wanna cuddle” when you try to give him goodnight sex. You think that attention he’s giving you means you’re not sharing it with someone else? Yeah..ok.

3. Good looks for Beauty: You may go through life gracing every mirror you walk past, but if you treat everyone like they’re beneath you, your family will be the only ones at your funeral. The ones who do show up.

4. Real N**ga for a Real Man: Some girls want a guy to “put them in their place” like a parent does a child. A real man wants a woman who knows her place is by his side.

5. Compliments for Respect: He went and ‘liked’ all your bathroom sink mirror pics and recited a couple Drake lines so you think it’s real huh? The more you blush, the more he’s going to tutor his homeboys on how to get you to have sex after he tells you he’s “just not ready for a relationship”.

6. Nice personality for Good character: He can make you laugh. Check. He’s smooth with words. Check. He’s witty and can hold an intelligent conversation? Check. But on that weekend you’re on your period, will he turn down that one thirsty chick he used to have sex with that never learned to let go?

7. Lust for Chemistry: You know that tingly feeling you get when you first see him. Everything just seems right about his smile, his walk, and the way he looks at you? It’s called hormones, not love at first sight.

8. Cockiness for High Self Esteem: A bad b**ch has nothing on a woman who knows she’s a queen. Period.

So here comes that hug your Mom would give you after she gave you a whooping and told you you’d thank her for it later. Ladies, stop getting things mixed up. No, it’s not your fault you have to decode anything, but it’s better to know now than to be left feeling lonely years later running into the arms of some man who just isn’t for you. Knowing the game keeps you from having to play it, and if you don’t play it, you’ll never lose.

What I Hate About Men – Mariam Elisha

     

Unlike other beauty queens who immediately disappear from the social scene after their reigns, former Miss Valentine, Mariam Elisha has remained in the limelight. she talks about her love life.

Excerpts:

Who’s the man in your life?

I think my relationship is personal to me. I will marry at the right time. I pray it happens soon.

What kind of man would you love to marry?

I want to marry a God fearing man because I always dream of making heaven. I don’t care whether he’s tall , handsome or rich. As long as he has the fear of God in him, and has respect for womanhood, I will marry the person. He must take me for who I am. I’m okay with him.

How many times have you been heartbroken?

Once. I don’t want to talk about it please.

What do you hate about men?

I hate disappointments and lies. Disappointment, not in the context of when one promises to marry a lady and later on, he didn’t keep to that promise. I mean, when I trust you as a friend and I expect you to keep to that trust and never hurt my feelings.

How do you describe yourself?

I am simply amazing!

You recently contested the Miss Nigeria pageant, what informed that decision?

I have always loved the name-Miss Nigeria and I feel that being Miss Nigeria will provide me the needful platform to affect more lives positively. As you know, I’m into charity and I do a lot of things to assist the poor. At the moment, I have not less than 40 children under my care. It is really pretty difficult coping with these children. I feel I need more helping hands and being Miss Nigeria will probably give me more support to smiles to the lives of these children.

Your dress sense?

It depends on the occasion. Sometimes, I like to look simple, but very dramatic. I am always very simple. When I’m not in the red-carpet mood, I love casual wears.

Vanguard

"I Took A Blood Oath With My Girl And Now I Want To Break It, Please Help"

                             
I took a blood oath with a girl for my own selfish reasons. Though I have feelings for her but if you ask me, I’d say she has little feelings for me.

Since taking the oath,  I’m no longer myself, I isolate myself from all my good female friends. This has resulted into calls for thorough investigation into what is going on.

My hands are always on my cheek whenever I’m alone.

The oath was made between the both of us. No native doctor was there. The razor blade we used; is still with me.

Please I want to know if the oath is potent without a native doctor. If it is, please assist me on what to do.

Victor. 

What Made Your Man Leave?? Hello Ladies!!! What Do You Think About Alibaba's Advice?

   

The comedian took to his Facebook page yesterday to dish out relationship advice to women. Find it below..

15 Tips for Talking to Women And Attracting Them Like Crazy

Many men are never taught how to talk to women. Because of this many guys go through life without the ability to attract a woman. Here are 15 tips to help make sure you aren’t making mistakes with the women you’d like to attract:

1. You should talk about “emotional” topics like childhood memories, future ambitions, or her passions. These conversation topics will open up her emotional floodgates.

2. Women want a guy who is not afraid to lead her. While talking to a woman take control of the conversation. Never wait for her to dictate what you’ll be talking about.

3. Pay attention to the non verbal cues a woman is giving you. If you’re standing too close to her, accidentally spitting when you talk, or making her feel uncomfortable in any way… she will send you hints. Pay attention to them.

4. Remember this motto “Fun not Funny.” Women are attracted to men who allow them to have fun. Don’t concentrate on having the funniest jokes. Concentrate on showing them the most excitement and enjoyment.

5. Tease women. One of the easiest ways to take a conversation to a fun and flirty level is to begin to tease women. Think back to your time on the playground. In the world of dating… what worked on the playground is effective all over again.

6. Get intimate with her. Women are turned on by men who are not afraid to take a conversation to a personal, intimate level.

7. Use things like “cold reads” to turn women on. Women love to hear opinions about themselves. Tell her what you observe about her.

8. Avoid complimenting a woman too much. Women are turned off by men who come across as “needy.” If you are complimenting a woman too much she will think you’re trying to impress her. Which will have the opposite effect.

9. If you want to know how to talk to women in a way that doesn’t bore them… Avoid asking too many “interview” style questions. Instead state your opinion about things.

10. Remember: Statements over questions. Instead of saying “where did you grow up?” Say “You don’t look like you grew up around here.” This allows you to make observations about her and express your personality.

11. Don’t hide your identity. Don’t be afraid to talk about whatever you’re passionate about.

12. Never compliment her on her eyes, looks, or body.

13. Say something that lets her know that you view her in a “sexual” way. If you don’t, you run the risk of winding up in the “friend zone”.

14. Use conversation “games” to keep the mood fun and flirtatious. Games can be anything like “truth or dare” or to less extreme games like the “5 questions game”.

15. Don’t give away your hand so fast. Women like men who are a challenge. If you want to keep a woman’s interest she has to feel like she is slowly winning you over. If she thinks you’re too easy… she’ll lose interest.

The best way to think about how to talk to women is to think about what kind of fun, playful, and sexual conversation you would most enjoy. Talking to a woman doesn’t have to be difficult. You just need to be aware of what they are turned on by and what turns them off. Follow the list above and you’ll do just fine.

Three Steps To Get a Girl To Fall In Love With You

Let’s face it — there is no fool-proof way to get every woman to fall madly in love with you. Or is there?… 

Almost ALL women have the same needs when it comes to looking for the right man, so there are ways of catching the eye of almost any woman.

• Would you like to be able to turn the head of any woman?

• Attract that woman you’ve had your eye on for a while?

• Or just want to take your current relationship to the next level?

“My Affair With Pastor Biodun Fatoyinbo Of COZA” – By Ese Walter

Keep an open mind as you read this because this is just one side of the story. A lady named Ese Walter (pictured above) is accusing a pastor with the Common Wealth Of Zion Assembly of manipulating her sexually/spiritually. I’m hoping to get the pastor’s side of the story later…that’s if he’s willing to talk. Read Ese’s story, which she shared on her blog, below…

“How To Keep Your Man” By Stella Damasus

Nollywood Actress Stella Damasus channeled some of her inner ‘Shakespeare’ on her blog and the product is one interesting, insightful and advisory article on how ladies ought to lay grip on their man. Surprise? Well you just have to read it all below.

22year old girl in love with step dad

I am a 22 year old girl and in college…. When I’m on holiday, I enjoy walking with Dad than Mum.

I have this problem that i get attracted to my Dad no matter how I try to control myself. I séduced him yesterday when my mum was away in a wedding and we ended up making love.

I have a boyfriend but I just find myself getting attracted to my Dad and I just don’t know why. I just feel like making love with him again and again… What should I do to stop this?

Because he told me that I am sweeter than mum (He’s my step Dad, but he is so sweet).

Please help

10 things you didn't know about orgasms

Yeah it national orgasm day,To celebrate here are some few facts you never knew.
1) Men are having more of them. Nearly a quarter of men claim to orgasm once a day, compared to just 15% of women. Unfair much? 
 
2) People are still embarrassed by them. Over 15% of sex toy owners hide their toys from their partners. Seriously? Get ‘em out, we say. Disclaimer: But er, not in public. 
 
3) They’re good for you. As well as the obvious fun, masturbating is good for you people! Countless studies show orgasm can actually reduce pain sensitivity, relieve cramps and alleviate stress. Can we get a ‘whoop whoop’?
 
4) They get better with age. While it’s obviously fairly difficult to determine, experts say that because you know your body better and are more comfortable with sex when you’re older, the ‘Big O’ is a happier place to visit in your 40s, 50s and beyond. Something to look forward to then!
 
5) Orgasms are better when you wait. According to a study published in the World Journal of Urology, abstaining from any sexual activity for three weeks means your testosterone levels will peak and boost your libido – resulting in a super-orgasm. 
 
6) They’re determined by your walk. No really. A recent Belgian study claims that you can tell just by the way a woman walks whether she’s able to
orgasm during intercourse. Hmmmm....
 
7) They’re usually followed by poking of a completely different type... Apparently 36% of people under the age of 35 head straight to Facebook and Twitter post-sex. What happened to cuddling guys?!
 
8) They just might help you live longer. Hooray. Unlike all those other good things (like say chocolate or wine) it turns out that orgasms might actually be good for our health.  According to the British Medical Journal, there’s a strong correlation between orgasms and mortality rates and those who orgasm two times a week or more can add up to eight years on to their life. Why? Apparently it boosts the immune system, hearth health and brain power. See ya in the bedroom? 
 
9) They’re literally mind-numbing. Researchers have found that some areas of a woman’s brain actually shut down during orgasm, including those involved in emotion. 
 
10) They make you look younger. Some doctors say frequent sex can increase collagen production, which helps to reduce age spots and keep skin looking young and taut. Apparently orgasms also give you oxytocin (known as ‘the love hormone’) which produces ‘glowing effects’. Cheaper than a facial too. 

8 things you may not know are making you fat

If you're spending hours working out but your not loosing any weight, it's time to try a different approach. Here are some few things that are obstructing your weight loss plan.

Your Reading skill

We all know that person, the one who eats burgers and still loses weight while you eat salad and yoghurt and can’t shed a pound. Turns out the problem may not be your appetite; it could be your reading skills. According to a study published in the Journal of Consumer Research, healthy-sounding labels are duping dieters.

Diet Soda Habit

Put down the pop! Studies have shown that subjects who drink two or more diet sodas a day have waist size increases up to six times greater than those of people who don’t drink diet soda. These insidious sodas may be free of calories, it makes you add more weight instead of helping you loose the pounds.

Lack of Sleep

New research suggests sleepless nights don’t just ruin your mood the next day—they could also damage your waistline. Researchers at the New York Obesity Nutrition Research Center at St. Luke’s-Roosevelt Hospital found that while sleepy folks seem to burn the same number of calories as well-rested people, they consume about 300 more calories a day.

The Room Temperature

Trying to lose weight? Turn down the thermostat. A cozy home could be contributing to making you fat, suggests research in the journal Obesity Reviews. When our bodies are cold, we shiver, causing our muscles to contract to generate heat—and burn calories.

Your Overweight Friends

A New England Journal of Medicine study declared that people can actually ''catch'' obesity from close friends. When researchers followed 12,067 people over 32 years, they concluded that those of us with very close friends who are obese have a 171 per cent higher chance of becoming obese too. The theory goes: you're influenced by your friends, and if they overeat, you may unwittingly follow their lead. Surprisingly, spouses have less sway over the belly than close friends of the same sex. The good news is that it may also work in reverse. Hang out with thin people and you might lose weight.

Eating Too Much

If you prescribe to the idea that eating small meals frequently throughout the day makes it easier to reduce overall calories, you could be doing yourself in. Turns out we're programmed to think that a meal is a perfect combination of proteins, carbohydrates, and fat. In reality, the mini-meals in some studies are much more like small—very small—snacks. How small? Check out the story below for a reality

Toxic Chemicals

While you may never have heard of phthalates—a family of chemicals used to make plastics flexible—new evidence linking these and other so-called “endocrine-disrupting” chemicals with obesity has been growing. In fact, researchers have taken to calling many of these substances obesogens (obesity-promoting chemicals). A healthy immune system can help ward off the dangers of these chemicals, but why not boost your body's efforts by not packing your produce in plastic the next time you buy groceries?

Your Stress Level

When you have chronic stress, your body steps up its production of cortisol and insulin. Your appetite increases, and so do the chances you’ll engage in “hedonistic” eating in the form of high-calorie sweets and fats. When you try to combat stress with food, you activate the reward center of your brain. After that initial feel-good spell wears off, you’ll reach again for the same thing that made you feel good, calm, and relaxed in the first place: more food.

The above are the solution to weight problems,try them out and enjoy the results

Another Good Reason To Use Condom

It’s not just the gut that benefits from friendly bacteria, a person’s more intimate regions do too – and condoms have been found to boost levels in women’s vaginas.